We tend to think of failure as something shameful, undesirable. Understandably, failing to
achieve it often cause negative feelings, no matter how big or small the goal was.
And the only way to overcome those feelings is by changing the way we understand failure -
it is part of the process of success and leaves valuable lessons if we know how to learn from
it.
Ways to redefine failure and learn from it effectively.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes - Learning from your mistakes is about more than just
thinking about what went wrong. The first step towards using failure as a tool for success is
to stop seeing mistakes as shameful.
Think about it - a mistake is not just a natural part of embarking on a new project; it is also
part of the human experience. As such, they should be accepted as a necessary step
towards achieving your goals.
In her article "Strategies for Learning from Failure" Amy C. Edmondson classifies mistakes
in three categories:
Preventable
These are the mistakes we often think of as bad. They result from lack of focus or attention
to the procedures needed to achieve the goal.
Complexity-related
These mistakes happen when the goal is the product of many factors - your own motivation,
previous skills, your environment, support network, and the resources you have to
accomplish it. If any of these fail, you might be unable to achieve the goal.
Intelligent mistakes
According to Adam Mendler in his article What Sales Executives Can Learn From Failure,
having the freedom to make mistakes increases creativity and work performance. Without
unnecessary pressures to avoid mistakes and the shame that comes with it, employees
contribute more frequently and are able to express more original ideas.
For example, many great inventions were discovered by accident - from Post-It notes to
penicillin.
Whatever the source of the mistake, removing any negative feelings about it and re-framing
it as a source of new knowledge is the first step towards learning from failure effectively.
But what's next?
Rethink your approach to your goal
Now that you're looking at the mistake without judgment, think of how you got into the
situation.
In his article The 4 Keys to Learning From Failure, Guy Winch suggests you analyze your
motivation levels, focus, and mindset. Did you feel less motivated to achieve your goal at
some point? Did something else distract you from it?
If your dedication and focus decreased at any time, make note of it and try to find the cause.
Identifying the internal and external causes that affected your resolve helps you prepare for
them in the future.
In some cases, discussing the failure with someone you trust can help you see the issues
from a different perspective. Rely on your support network to pinpoint what went wrong
and how you could prevent it.
Plan ahead
Identifying what caused the mistake is not enough to prevent it in the future. You need to
take steps to prevent that mistake from happening again.
If your goal was to write a novel in six months, you've probably identified a few reasons why
you couldn't achieve it - lack of time, insufficient planning, or lack of motivation.
But what can you do to prevent those issues to get in the way of your goal in the future? In
our example, you could scale down the scope of the novel, spend more time planning the
story, or set a specific time to write undisturbed.
In summary, failure is not permanent. By accepting failure, analyzing its causes and defining
how you can eliminate those causes, you're on your way to achieving your goals. Failing at a goal is a lesson. Turn that failure into a learning experience, it will help you move forward.
